Monday, June 15, 2015

The Professional Crush




Have you ever had a "professional crush"?

Not the romantic kind. And certainly not the kind you would ever act on.

A professional crush occurs when you work for (or with) a super smart, high-integrity, fearless but fair, exceptional leader. The one who always makes the play that's best for the team or the company - not just best for themselves (or their favorite employees). The one who sees right through and isn't at all moved by brown-nosers. The one who isn't intimidated by others who are as smart or smarter than them. The one who rarely makes mistakes, but when they do, they take accountability for them.

Many times these people are intimidating to others because of their integrity and strength of character.

Because it's not romantic in nature, a professional crush isn't limited to bosses (or co-workers) of the opposite sex.

These are role models of the highest order. The professional crush may seem to border on idolizing someone or putting them on a pedestal, but because it's based on true, proven character it's actually just great admiration.

I have had the good fortune to experience many professional crushes (and been the recipient of a few, as well).

Here's to you, exceptional bosses and co-workers! You know who you are.

Sunday, June 14, 2015

My First and My Last

 
Thinking about my firsts…
  • The first man who kissed me and made me see stars.
  • The first man who took me on the most romantic and most memorable first date.
  • The first man who captured my heart and caused me to fall head over heels in love.
  • The first man I shared myself with intimately.
  • The first man who made me see stars intimately.
  • The first man I married.
  • The first man who made me feel safe.


My firsts will always hold a special place in my heart, but I’m looking forward to the one man who will be my last and my final.

I can feel him approaching...and my heart is already overflowing with love and anticipation.

Constantly Thinking...about my last love.